Toddler Level Mirror

It’s hard to be a little kid in an adult world. Everything is made for big people and you are working so hard to navigate this world but don’t seem to fit in. Having a toddler sized layout is important for building self-esteem and independence. Unfortunately, it is surprisingly counter intuitive and difficult to do as an adult that has had adult sized items for so long. One way I like to help myself navigate this new world better is to crawl around and see what my son’s perspective is and how I can better create an appropriate environment for him. It is not something that has happened quickly, but I like to give myself credit even for the small things. My house doesn’t look like a Montessori classroom or a toddler oasis but I am trying one item at a time.
One rearranged item is better than none I tell myself!

mirror hanging at toddler height on bedroom wall

It’s a small change I made. I happened to have this non-glass mirror hanging above my dresser so I could put my earrings in. It was very useless since I can’t wear earrings anymore unless I want to risk losing my lobes. I decided to hang it low in my son’s bedroom so that he can see himself in the mirror.

The first time he got a peek he did a double take. He smiles when he sees himself. He gets joy from seeing me in the mirror and then turning around and seeing me right there. Sure it’s covered in finger prints most of the time and doesn’t entertain him for more than a couple minutes, but I believe having this at his height is one small step I can take in making him feel confident in his environment, making him feel that his room is his.

Future goal: a brush on a shelf so he can learn to comb his hair

DIY Montessori Shelf

Wouldn’t we all love to spend endless money on the perfect setup for every room? If I could, I would have bought this Montessori infant shelf from Sprout. I found this brand when I was searching for a toddler table (blog post coming soon). I decided to convert a bookshelf that we had in his room. We had LOTS of children’s books on the bookshelf, and my son liked to create chaos by pulling all the books down on the ground… over, and over again. I found myself constantly putting the books back on the shelf multiple times a day. This appeared to be a waste of my time and my sons’ time.

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Then I started to think about it from my son’s perspective. If I saw a shelf full of books stacked really close together, wouldn’t I have the urge to pull them off the shelf as well?? Looking at adjacent photo, what can a child actually process? This shelf is overwhelming. The books aren’t viewed as single items but as a large unit built up of building blocks- and what do toddlers like to do with building blocks? Knock them over! Break them down to their smallest part to try to understand their structure.

Wooden bookshelves are expensive. Even before I decided on a Montessori set-up, I knew I wanted a real wooden bookshelf. Buying new was way out of our price range, so my mother in law found this wooden bookshelf at a consignment shop for us.

bookshelf with only two items per shelf.
Visually manageable for a toddler

The first of every month, I rotate the items that are on the shelf. Every item on this shelf was a gift we received. I keep his books in the top shelf of the closet and his toys in a toy box. I am no longer putting handfuls of books back on the shelf multiple times a day. My son now goes to the bookshelf and actually looks at the different items. He will normally just take one item to play with (or throw on the ground, let’s be honest). Even though the top shelf appears out of his reach, he actually really good at reaching to the top and likes getting the book up top. We did secure the bookshelf to the wall with cables for the day he decides to climb up the shelf.

His bedroom is less messy, I am cleaning up less and we are all much happier!